Getting Married: Frequently Asked Questions

When it comes to legal rights and being married vs. unmarried, there are several major issues to consider. Specifically, unmarried couples do not automatically:

• Inherit each other's property. Married couples who do not have a will have their state intestacy laws to back them up; the surviving spouse will inherit at least a fraction of the deceased spouse's property under the law.
• Speak for each other in a medical crisis. If your life partner loses consciousness or capacity, someone will have to make the decision whether to go ahead with a medical procedure. That person should be you. But unless you have taken care of some legal paperwork, you may not have the right to do so.
• Manage each other's finances in a crisis. A husband and wife who have jointly owned assets will generally be affected less by this problem than an unmarried couple.

The following steps are particularly important for couples who are not married:

• Prepare a will. If both partners make out wills, the chances are that the intentions expressed in the wills will be followed after one partner dies. If there are no wills, the unmarried surviving partner will probably be left high and dry.
• Consider owning property jointly. Joint ownership of property with right of survivorship is a way of ensuring that property will pass to the other joint owner on one joint owner's death. Real property and personal property can be put into this form of ownership.
• Prepare a durable power of attorney. Should you become incapacitated, the durable power of attorney will allow your partner to sign papers and checks for you and take care of other financial matters on his or her behalf.
• Prepare a health care proxy. The health care proxy (sometimes called a "medical power of attorney") allows your partner to speak on your behalf when it comes to making decisions about medical care, should you become incapacitated.
• Prepare a living will. A living will is the best way to let the medical community know what your wishes are regarding artificial feeding and other life‑prolonging measures.

The purpose of life insurance is to provide a source of income for your children, dependents, or whoever you choose as a beneficiary, in case of your death. Therefore, married couples typically need more life insurance than their single counterparts. If you have a spouse, child, parent, or some other individual who depends on your income, then you probably need life insurance.

Typical situations

• Families or single parents with young children or other dependents. The younger your children, the more insurance you need. If both spouses earn income, then both spouses should be insured, with insurance amounts proportionate to salary amounts. If the family cannot afford to insure both wage earners, the primary wage earner should be insured first, and the secondary wage earner should be insured later on. A less expensive term policy might be used to fill an insurance gap. If one spouse does not work outside the home, insure the value of services they provide (child care, housekeeping, bookkeeping); if funds are limited, prioritize the wage earner.
• Adults with no children or other dependents. You will need less insurance than in the prior case, but you still may want to provide for burial expenses, debts, and an orderly transition for the surviving spouse. Increase coverage if your spouse would face hardship without your income or savings are limited.
• Single adults with no dependents. Typically only enough insurance to cover burial expenses and debts—unless using insurance for estate planning purposes.
• Children. Generally only enough life insurance to pay burial expenses and medical debts. In some cases, a life policy might be used as a long‑term savings vehicle.

You should notify all organizations where your prior name is on file. Start with:

• Social Security Administration
• Driver's license bureau
• Auto license bureau
• Passport office
• Employer
• Voter registration office
• School alumni offices
• Investment and bank accounts
• Insurance agents
• Retirement accounts
• Credit cards and loans
• Subscriptions
• Club memberships
• Post Office

Absolutely. Your will should be updated often, especially when such a significant life event occurs. Otherwise, your spouse and other intended beneficiaries may not get what you intended upon your death.

Once you are married you are entitled to file a joint income tax return. While this simplifies the filing process, you may find your tax bill either higher or lower than if each of you had remained single. Where it's higher it's because when you file jointly more of your income is taxed in the higher tax brackets—often called the "marriage tax penalty." Tax law changes in the form of marriage penalty relief were made permanent by the American Taxpayer Relief Act of 2012, and remained in place under the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017 with the exception of married taxpayers in the highest tax bracket.

You cannot avoid the marriage penalty by filing separate returns after you're married. In fact, filing as "married filing separately" can actually increase your taxes. Consult your tax advisor if you have questions about the best filing status for your situation.

Under a joint IRS and U.S. Department of the Treasury ruling issued in 2013, same‑sex couples, legally married in jurisdictions that recognize their marriages, are treated as married for federal tax purposes, including income and gift and estate taxes. The ruling applies regardless of whether the couple lives in a jurisdiction that recognizes same‑sex marriage or a jurisdiction that does not.

In addition, the ruling applies to all federal tax provisions where marriage is a factor, including filing status, claiming personal and dependency exemptions, taking the standard deduction, employee benefits, contributing to an IRA and claiming the earned income tax credit or child tax credit. Any same‑sex marriage legally entered into in one of the 50 states, the District of Columbia, a U.S. territory or a foreign country is covered by the ruling. However, it does not apply to registered domestic partnerships, civil unions or similar formal relationships recognized under state law.

Common forms of property ownership (varies by state):

• Sole Tenancy. Ownership by one individual. At death the property passes according to your will.
• Joint Tenancy (with right of survivorship). Equal ownership by two or more people. At death, property passes to the joint owner(s). Often avoids probate.
• Tenancy in Common. Joint ownership without survivorship. At death your share passes according to your will.
• Tenancy by the Entirety. Similar to Joint Tenancy but only for spouses; prevents one spouse from disposing of the property without the other's permission.
• Community Property. In some states, married people own property, assets, and income jointly (equal ownership of property acquired during marriage). Community property states: AZ, CA, ID, LA, NV, NM, TX, WA, WI.